Happiness? My secrets to happiness.
Recently some people have told me "you always seem to be happy. How do you do it?" I am not always in upbeat and happy mood, but yes I am human. Everyone in the world does experience feeling sad at any moment of the day or longer than a day. Not going to lie I always used feel a little sad or down, and I was the only one that could change this. To me it seems there is more miserable to people in the world now. And we ask ourselves how can achieve happiness or will I ever be happy? I used to think happiness or being happy was for a reason, but I was wrong happiness is so simple that we even miss it. We stress over things and say " I will be happy when my exams are over, I'll be happy when I get a good career, I'll be happy when I find my soulmate, I'll be happy when I can buy a car, I'll be happy when I can buy a nice house, I'll be happy when my dreams come true." That's the I'll be happy attitude. I am going to share what keeps me happier than most days, and share you my secrets of happiness.
We are always comparing our lives to someone else because they have all these flashy and nice things. We do not know how hard the person had to work to achieve those things, or they can afford it but does it truly makes them happy. To me it's I always tell myself no one is the same if it was it would be boring.
The way I keep myself for being happy or lifting up my moods is just enjoy the small little things that life has to offer you. If you have had a bad beginning that doesn't mean you don't have a good ending. You are the controller of your emotions, thoughts, and the way you live life.
Don't feel sorry for yourself, self pity is an enemy to you. It has the power to bring you down, and the others around you. Don't blame yourself for the way the life is or blaming it on the way you are. To me it is pointless on holding on emotions that are holding you back. You can worry for a while that's fine but it doesn't get you anywhere. You have to focus on your future and have no space for the past. It is pointless to get stuck in a moment in your life that is past and it can't be changed.
We all have negative thoughts about life, love, friendships, and many more. The more we think these thoughts we start to believe them and start to live them. We can not let one bad thought ruin of what we are capable of.
To me happiness is so important to have. You can lift anyone's spirits up just by your happiness.
"Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud."- Maya Angelou
Before I go to bed each night I pray and thank god for everything in my life he has given me. I count my blessings, and see how far I have came in life. To me life is about living in moment doing what makes you happy. We all have a purpose in the world but for all different unique reason.
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