"I think it's time you get a serious boyfriend." Bish Whet!

Yes this blog is going to be about a recent life experience that just happened to me. I haven't had a boyfriend for a long time, and I am completely fine with that. So I just been enjoying life as a college student.. You know doing what college people do.

So I have a friend that has been disagreeing with my choice of a certain lifestyle that I choose to do. I understand and respect her point of views and opinions. So a few weeks ago my friend was telling me " You are going to be 22, and it's time you get a serious boyfriend."  In my head I was like are you serious, just because you have a boyfriend  doesn't mean I need a freaking boyfriend. 

Honestly, I really don't want to a boyfriend. It's like what Summer Finn says in 500 days of summer " I like being on my own. Relationships are messy and people's feelings get hurt. Who needs it? We're young." I completely agree with her we can save the serious stuff for later, and enjoy life as it comes. Don't get me wrong I would like a relationship in future just not right now.  This photo makes me laugh, I just think when you start looking for someone you just start to settle, and it may not be the right relationship.

I understand my friend is being a caring friend and looking out for me.. I am thankful for that. I know I have a tendency of picking or being attracted to shitty bad guys, and she doesn't want me to get hurt. I am not the same person I was in high school... I know what i want in a guy but I don't want one this current moment. Sometimes if feels like she thinks all relationship should start off the same as hers did. I can get the wrong vibe, but all relationships don't start off the same. I completely agree with the photo on the bottom, we should never compare your life or relationship life to someone else's... That is like setting yourself for heartache. 

Another reason why is because this photo below I want to do this.

I want to go on adventures, see the world and explore. I want to grow as a person. Like someone once told me travel and see new things the world has to offer to you. I want to do that, it's like why not we can learn so many things from different people around the world. I want to go adventures and explore life by myself. I want to leave my print in the world by myself, and become something of myself. Maybe that's just me because I would not like to depend on a guy.. I would rather work my butt off for everything I have, instead of someone throwing in my face. What I am trying to say is that I don't need a boyfriend, I am happy with my life. Also don't let anyone make you feel less because of the things you do or feel aren't the same as what they do or feel. Just because my friend has a boyfriend doesn't mean I am going to find a random guy and make him my boyfriend. 

- Ginny